So it seems that I have become “that guy” here on the internet… You know the one. That guy who starts a cool little blog about a very niche topic, keeps it up for a few years with some interesting and relevant experiences from his life, establishes a pretty decent following, then just sort of… disappears. And for that – I’m Sorry!
Unfortunately I can’t say it’s going to change much in the very near future, as we all know how life can swing this way and that. Kids grow, get into new things, and parents are pretty much along for the ride until eventually they’ll make their way out of the nest and we’ll be back to more of our own hobbies again! I will keep this blog published for as long as I’m able, hopefully even sneaking a post in every now and then like this one, but right now I am the parent along for the ride of my kids lives! I really do love my kids and don’t mind doing the dad thing for a while! Ultimately that really is more important than kink, and this is a blog about kink – NOT kids.
That is certainly not to say chastity is out of my life though! Quite the contrary, as I am getting closer to my second 2+ year stint without a release! It’s just kind of part of me now, and I still enjoy giving Angel orgasms so much that I can hardly imagine actually being out to have my own anymore! We don’t even keep the keys in the house these days, so neither of us are ever tempted to use them. In fact, it would take BOTH of us to ever actually get them back!
We have some property about a 30-minute drive from our current house, where eventually we plan to build a new home. I have a shed out there with my tractor and other things that I use for maintaining that property. Inside the shed, secured to a shelf in the corner is a lockbox containing the keys to my chastity cage, which only Angel knows the combination for. However, since Angel is rarely out there without me, she prefers not to keep a key to the shed for herself. So while I can’t access the lockbox without HER, she can’t even get into the shed without ME! It’s a bit of a catch-22 ordeal which definitely prevents unlocking me on a whim for either one of us! In fact, we have tentatively agreed that we will most likely not even try that at this point until we have the new house built and are actually living at that location. Being how we haven’t even broken ground yet, it’s going to be a while!
The main reason for this post though isn’t just to be about my current state of lockup. I really wanted to take some time to write about a new experience I’ve recently had (while still locked), which will probably be a bit controversial for some. It all has to do with hair removal – specifically waxing! I have been shaving pretty much everything from the neck down, and trying all sorts of other things to keep body hair at bay for several years now. But a few months ago I decided to try some professional waxing, at least on my chest, stomach, underarms, legs, and eventually even added on my full arms. I have really enjoyed doing that and it has become a fairly regular routine for those areas. I wasn’t going to go any further than that (i.e. a Brazilian), mainly because of course I am locked in a chastity cage with no quick access to the keys!
I had been thinking of having the vasectomy for a very long time, and in fact part of the reason my last chastity session went to 2 1/2 years is because Angel and I agreed together that I shouldn’t get out until the time came that I was going to have that done. Then came Covid… and those plans were pushed out indefinitely along with my lockup! But last Spring since I was out anyway, it was definitely time. I had been a little worried about the possible effect that having a vasectomy could have on being able to wear a chastity cage, and engaged in numerous conversations around that topic on Fetlife and other such sounding boards. But it seemed like overall it really wasn’t an issue for most guys. If anything, it was just a matter of waiting long enough after the procedure for everything to heal, before trying to get into a cage again. Well, we wound up waiting at least 8 months afterwards, so no issue there!
